How to properly inquire on lead sites

Hey all, Patrick here.  Been away from the blog for a bit, but will start more regular posts from here on out.

I have noticed something the past few months which garnered my attention and thought it would be worth giving some advice on.  Many DJs use lead generation sites such as Eventevctive, Gigmasters, Wedplan and others to help fill in the gaps on our schedules.  These sites are a valuable tool, both for the bride and groom and for vendors, as it is a good way to connect.  However, it is only a good tool to use if you, the couple, properly fill out your information.  I have noticed a disturbing number of mistakes being made in recent inquiries.

1. Have a date in your inquiry.  I can guarantee there is not one professional vendor who is going to purchase your lead if it has the words “still deciding on date” in it.  Using these sites costs money, and no one is going to put money down on a lead for a date they already have booked.  If you do not know your date, do not start planning your wedding on these sites.

2. Unless you are looking for a venue….have a location listed. If you are only looking for the venue, do not check you need other vendors yet.  Every single vendor is going to ask for 2 things when they first start corresponding with you: when and where.  This is not to be nosy…this is because these two pieces of information are how every single one of us produces your quote.  Without knowing when and where, we can not offer any type of response for you.

3. Make sure your budget is really what your budget is.  Outside of are we available and do we travel to where you are….this is the biggest thing we base buying a lead on.  Many companies will buy all the leads that come in and then try to talk you up to their price….we do not do this. If you have a budget in mind, stick to it and don’t let someone talk you out of it.  But on the flip side, know that if you put your budget in for $300-$500 for your wedding entertainment, you are not going to get all the services you want in that price range.  Conversely, if you know your budget is $300-$500 and you put it in for higher, you are going to get only quotes from outside your budget.  This not only causes the DJs in your budget to not buy the lead (thus causing you to miss out on the actually companies you want to be talking too), but it will also cause the companies in the high price bracket to needlessly purchase a lead they have no shot at booking. It is a lose/lose all around.

4. Communicate with all the companies who contact you.  Even if you are not interested in booking with the company, a courtesy email letting them know is the best thing to do.  Personally, I spend around 2-3 hours daily sorting through the emailing / calling leads, most of which comes from these sites.  I will contact every one twice then let it go. It is much easier for me to hear “we have gone with another company” than to keep contacting someone who is not interested.

5. Don’t over-complicate the inquiry.  Details are good, but too many details in a lead are not.  Remember, your goal when going to these sites is to get a cross section of vendors to contact you.  Once they contact you and questions start getting asked, the details will emerge from that.  Over-detailed leads are leads we avoid, because, in all honesty, it comes off as not trusting the professional vendors you are looking for.

Remember, you are looking for professionals, and the reason we are professionals is because we have experience and knowledge to help your special day’s dreams come true.

 

2012 Brings Changes To The Company

Hi everyone, Patrick here.  I just wanted to take a few moments to give some context as to why we moved away from the all in one pricing model we have used in the past to the package model we will be using going forward. 

First, this new structure actually came out of comments from you, the client.  Many times we heard “I don’t need lighting at my wedding”. Or the one we heard even more than that “can we meet to talk about things”.  In the past, there was no option for these questions.  With the all in one approach, you were paying for lighting no matter if you needed it or not.  Now, you can look through and find the best option to suit your needs. 

Going forward, every option will also no include at least one face to face meeting .  Now, there is a small catch with that.  This option is for local clients only (more on that in a bit).  This new addition came directly from our past clients letting us know it would be something they would have been interested in. 

More importantly, to you as our client, these new packages will save you money as well.  Under the old pricing model….everything you get in the Gold Package would have cost $870…..now it is $725…..the Diamond Package would have run you $1035 under the old pricing….now it is $800.

The packages give you the freedom to choose exactly the type of service you will want, for less money. 

Now, some questions which have already hit our inbox:

  1. Can I still add on other services if I use the Basic Package?
    1. Unfortunately…no.  The packages are leveled and designed to give you the best value for the services you are looking for.  If you wanted lighting or the slideshow service, you would have to pick the appropriate package which contains these services.
    2. What is this “local” and “in area” thing?
      1. This is actually always something we had in place, but it was simply built into the quote you received.  Now, we are just letting you know up front.  Basically, it is based on a 60 mile radius from our office.  Anything inside that 60 mile radius is considered local, and will be eligible for the face to face meetings as described in the packages.  Over that 60 mile radius is consider in area and will be assessed a $125 travel fee with the package price. Under the old pricing, the travel fee was simply added into the overall price of the quote.
      2. What other changes are you planning on making in 2012. 
        1. There is one other change we are planning, and that is in regards to payment.  Starting January 1, checks will be accepted for your initial deposit only.  Final balance payment will be due either via credit card or in cash the night of.  No longer will we be accepting checks for final payment.  Once again, this has come from a majority of our past clients asking about paying with a credit card or cash. You will receive a company receipt upon final payment as well.   
        2. Also starting on January 1, credit cards will no longer be accepted through Paypal, and instead will be processed directly through us.

 If there is anything else you would like to know about the changes we have in store for 2012, just drop us a comment down here and we will be more than happy to answer any of your questions.

How to have a fun wedding

We have all seen it before. Guests sitting talking in hushed tones at their table instead of making sure your special day is a fun, upbeat affair. By the time the night is over, only a handful of guests remain. How can you prevent this from happening on your wedding day? Is there a way to make sure you and your guests are still dancing the night away when the venue turns the lights on? The answer is yes!

The first thing to remember is that you control the mood of your day. Guests will be looking at you to dictate the mood of your reception. You need to be the one on the dance floor living it up and encouraging others to come out and celebrate. If you simply sit and talk the whole night, that is what your guests will do as well.

It is also important to select vendors who will match the mood you are trying to portray. If you are trying to portray a fun, upbeat party atmosphere, you do not a DJ or photographer who is going to be too formal or stuffy. Conversely, if you are wanting a more subdued and understated mood, an outgoing over the top vendor should be avoided. The key to finding the right vendor is doing your research. Look at reviews on sites like WeddingWire, Yelp and Facebook. Also look at the testimonials section of the vendors website and see if the responses from past clients match the mood you are trying to set.

Now the next thing I about to say perhaps the biggest pet peeve I have at any reception we do, it seems like complete common sense, but so many brides (and grooms) can not seem to understand the importance of what I am about to say. Perhaps the biggest, most important factor in creating a fun and exciting reception is for you to actually be there. What I mean by this is stay in the room. Having to run to the bathroom or step outside for a quick minute is fine. But anything outside of 5 minutes is excessive and will completely destroy any vibe that is in the room. I have done enough weddings to see it happen time and time again. Your guests have come to celebrate with you, and if you are not visible to them, they will leave. This is a guarantee.

Lastly, I can not express the importance of proper planning in facilitating fun upbeat atmosphere. Planning, however, does not mean micromanaging the professional vendors you hire. Timelines are great, but over stressing when the timeline is thrown off (and trust me it will be) takes away from everyone’s enjoyment. Give all your vendors an outline of the order you would like your reception to go, then relax and let them do their job. Get your guests involved in the time between when they arrive at the reception site and when you arrive (we offer a slide show service for this time). Also, if you are going to have kids at your reception, be sure to provide an area for them. A box of dress up costumes and a few point and shoot cameras is a great where to keep them occupied during the cocktail hour. Your guests will only feel (and be) bored if you give them a reason to be that way.

If you have any other suggestions for brIdes and grooms, please feel free to add them to the comments section!

F.A.Q.

Why should we hire Sights and Sounds?

1.) PROFESSIONALISM.

We are always completely professional in the way we act and treat your guests. We are very easy going, considerate and thoughtful. We have performed many weddings and other events and know how to read and respect every audience. We are always on time, prepared to play what you have requested, and always willing to go the extra mile when asked. We will help create the perfect schedule of events and mix of music to ensure the success of your event. Should you have things already planned, we will easily work with your established itinerary and the other professionals (caterer, photographer, coordinator, etc.). That is what a professional does.

2.) EXPERIENCE

We have performed at many successful wedding receptions and know what works and what does not work. We know what to expect, can offer suggestions and can even handle awkward situations. We provide just the right atmosphere whether it be high energy, fun, low keyed, casually cool or sophisticated charm- whatever your event dictates. Best of all, we give you the personalized attention that you can expect from a professional DJ service.

3.) PERSONALIZED ATTENTION.

This is your special day and although we do at least 30 to 50 Weddings a year, we go out of our way to personalize your Wedding Reception. We compile a personal agenda for your event. We will follow YOUR agenda- not a standard cookie cutter agenda used at every event. You tell us what you’d like us to announce, what to play, etc. and you can rest assured we will follow all of your requests to make this the Wedding you’ve dreamed about. We are the co-owners/operators and perform ALL events ourselves. This means you are booking only Patrick and Eric– not someone we have contracted. We also have access to back-up DJ’s if necessary; but we have never missed a single gig. We are not a booking agent who goes out and digs up small DJ companies that are mediocre in many ways and then give them top of the line business from our clients. We feel that there are too many illegitimate DJ’s out there to take a chance on your wedding day. We have always said we could make more money if we could clone our service to be able to deliver our professional services to more than one client at a time. But, at this time, we feel as if our reputation stands on our ability to make your event the event of the day and give you our undivided attention for the day. We have never missed a gig.

Unlike other DJs, you do not have to worry about talking to a salesman who assigns random DJ’s. We assure you that there is NOTHING any other DJ or agency can offer that we cannot. We have backup equipment, access to backup DJ’s, access to endless musical libraries, and best of all professionalism without attitude. We don’t simply go to a warehouse and pick up a daily assignment and a generic PA system. We own, and maintain all the equipment and music- it’s ours- not some other guy’s who could care less if there is an equipment failure as long as a warm bodied DJ shows up and he gets his cut.

4.) MUSICAL KNOWLEDGE AND ABILITY:

No matter what music format you like (other than International songs), we are likely to have it, can figure it out, and can play it if you choose. We also keep the crowd dancing by always knowing what to play next, when to slow it down, when to speed it up, etc. We are a professional music programmer. We know what we have scheduled to play when we arrive at your event. No “okay wonder- what should we play next?” questions. The music you hear will all flow together very smoothly. There will be no dead air in-between songs, but instead the songs will all flow together to make dancing time more fun.

5.) WORK ETHIC.

You will NEVER meet a DJ (or other Vendor for that matter) that works harder than we do to meet your every expectation. We believe we frequently exceed Brides/Grooms every single requests, desires, and visions. We have set the bar VERY high for Sights and Sounds and are never happy simply being one the best in the area- we want to greatly exceed the expectations of our clients. We always feel we can improve in some way, somehow. NO ONE entertains like we do.

How does Sights and Sounds cost compare to other companies in the area?

We pride ourselves on high levels of professionalism, reliability, service, flexibility, experience, and musical expertise. Many DJ’s in the area are guys with cheap equipment and music obtained …. Well we won’t go there. We are professionals with professional equipment and high standards. Our costs are comparable to other DJ’s in this area. If you are simply price shopping for a DJ, we may or may not be the cheapest guy in town. We have years of experience in public performance and am very easy to get along with. We regularly work with brides who are budget conscious. We routinely DJ at some of the finest establishments in the area. That said, if you are looking for the cheapest DJ- we may or may not be the “right” guys for your event. If you are looking to hire “the Right” DJ for your event, we are someone you want to consider. We are one of only a few exceptional DJ’s in the area that can make your event the most memorable one possible.

How does Sights and Sounds distinguish themselves from other companies?

First and foremost it would be our superior personalized service you receive from the first time we speak until the big day. We make ourselves more available than any other DJ in the area. We take calls and/or inquiries at all times. We are available to talk to you to answer any question or address any concern you may have about. We are a company that is always striving for perfection in every aspect of DJing. We are always working to improve our services, whether it is by buying more music, getting the newest equipment, and/or expanding our ever growing Wedding knowledge. We are not the type of company who picks up the phone and appears irritated that you have questions about your event or DJ. We want you to feel comfortable with us. We don’t want you to feel like you settled for a under qualified DJ. Quite simply, there are many unprofessional DJ’s out there performing. All it takes is some cheap equipment, a computer to print business cards and some music and ***poof*** call yourself a DJ Service. We have a very low-pressure approach to booking events. We tell you what we can offer then you decide. We will not call you 10 times pressuring you to return a signed contract, we will never claim to be the ’do it all’ DJ (instead, we will only offer one style–professional), we will always be your point of contact, and we am always available for you when you have questions/concerns. A signed contract and $100.00 deposit is all you need from you to book our services.

What is the best time to contact Sights and Sounds?

We don’t have ’set’ office hours and the easiest way to make initial contact is through email (sightsandsoundsdj@gmail.com). You can also use the availability checker on any page of our site to send us over your information as well. We prefer to have some type of email contact before speaking with you on the phone, simply because it gives us an idea of what you are looking for. If you would like to reach us by telephone (304) 839-4926 is the number. This is Patrick’s cell phone, which is on 24/7 for all clients. You may also text him at this number as well. All calls and emails will be responded to within 24 hours, if not sooner.

How far in advance should we reserve our date?

As soon as possible to ensure you get the date you want. We book VERY quickly for weekends and holidays. The easiest way to see if we would be available on your date is to use the availability checker, which is updated daily.

Does Sights and Sounds do face to face meetings with prospective clients?

Ten years ago, the answer to this was absolutely. However, with advances in technology, it is much easier for us to communicate with clients without a face to face meeting. From email to phone/text to the various forms of online chat (Facebook, AIM, GChat, Yahoo) we have been able to provide a system whereby a face to face meeting is no long essential to a well run, successful day. It is extremely rare for us to do a face to face meeting.

What do you wear at the events you work?

Our attire is seasonal. In the winter time, our standard wedding attire is a long sleeved company branded polo or dress shirt with khakis. In the warmer months, it is a company branded polo with khakis. We believe in fostering a fun, festival atmosphere without the stuffiness some DJs bring to an event. Therefore, you will never see us in a tuxedo or suit and tie.

Does Sights and Sounds entertain the crowd?

The music we play entertains people. We are not a radio DJ who announces every song and calls your event like a sports caster. You will never hear us get on the microphone and scream, “all right let’s get this party started”!

Does Sights and Sounds have the typical music you hear at every DJed event?

We play the music you choose for your event. We do have “the Macarena”, “the Electric Slide”, “the Chicken Dance” or any most other line dances songs. We do not have to play them if you choose not to hear them at your reception. Again, this is your day and you can tell us exactly what to and what not to play–it’s up to you! We will be more than happy to play them if you would like, or you can simply leave it up to us to decide based on your crowd and your guests’ requests.

Will Sights and Sounds play music provided by people the day of the event?

We never allow outside music to be played at any event we work. There are a couple reasons for this. First, we pride ourselves on having on the highest quality music, both in sound quality and content quality. All our music is edited for content, meaning you will never hear any cursing at an event we play. We have no way to know the quality of the music someone may hand us. Second, our system is an all digital, computer controlled system which must have all the music loaded onto the hard drive prior to your event in order to insure proper playback.

Can Sights and Sounds provide music for our ceremony with a separate sound system?

We can provide you with a small separate system IF your ceremony is in the same location as your reception.

Does Sights and Sounds take requests?

Of course, within reason. We welcome any requests from the crowd! Also, while we welcome each client’s input on the music for the event, it’s often our experience and openness to take requests that helps keep people dancing all night long. It is very difficult for us to use our knowledge of music if you have pre-programmed all the music. One hour of music is approximately 15 songs. Keep this in mind when you fill out the song request list.

Will Sights and Sounds provide references?

We can supply references to any interested clients. We do not list references names and contact information on the site to respect our clients. Client confidentiality is highly important to us as to not reveal personal information about our clients.

How do you know what music to play?

We play a little bit for everyone. Most everyone will feel included and will have a good time. We bring and can play ANYTHING you might want (other than International music). During cocktail hour and/or Dinner, we play a lot of 40’s/50’s Jazz/Big Band and perhaps some easy listening. This music is always background music, which means you can still chat with the person next to you without yelling. During dance time, we usually play Swing, Motown, 70’s, newer hip hop and perhaps some 80’s/90’s – trying to cater to the median age of the guests. The music is always a nice mix with smooth transitions, so if you are dancing there will be NO silence in-between songs.

Do you use a Digital Music and/or CD’s?

We are a 100% computer based company.

Can we come see you perform?

We often get asked this question, but it is something we strongly oppose. WE do not invite couples to come see us at SOMEONE ELSE’S Wedding. We are more than happy to provide references, but we do not randomly invite guests to Wedding Receptions where we are performing. Besides, you would need to stay the whole 4 hours to get the complete screening of our style.

Do you require a meal?

You decide on this one. Refreshments are greatly appreciated, and sustenance even more so. Please do not feel obligated, and certainly don’t add us to your headcount for the meal service. Typically, there is at least one guest already counted will end up not showing. Our only request is that you let us know either way ahead of time so that we can plan accordingly.

What do you need at the venue?

We need a grounded outlet with two plugs. If you are taking the lighting package, we will require a third outlet on a totally separate circuit. Also, the lighting package requires a minimum 10 foot ceiling clearance.

What kind of equipment do you have?

All of our equipment is professional grade audio and lighting. The brands we use include Berhinger, Shure,Peavey and EV.

What time will you arrive the day of our event?

We usually arrive 2 hours prior to our start time and will be completely set up and ready to go 1 hour prior to our contracted time. . Depending on the venue, it may take slightly longer.

Are you a member of any DJ Associations?

Having worked around the mobile entertainment industry for the past 16 years, we have come to one conclusion: DJ Associations serve no purpose to professional DJs. They are nothing more than a marketing trick for DJs to use on potential clients to make them sound more important than they actually are. A little logo in the corner of a website does not make a professional DJ.

Many DJs tout their membership in national associations as a way to network with other DJs and get sound advice. Sights and Sounds is able to accomplish this by being one of the leading contributors to the industry’s top online forum, Our DJ Talk (www.ourdjtalk.com).

Do you offer any “sign on now”, “book on-line”, “book early” etc. discounts?

Normally, we do have some type of special or discount promotion running. The easiest way to keep up with what we have going at any given time is to follow us on Facebook (www.facebook.com/sightsandsoundsdjandvideo) or Twitter (www.twitter.com/sightssoundsdj).

Do you bring a cordless microphone?

We only used wired microphones. We find cordless microphones to be much to unreliable to use. A wired microphone will always work, no matter the situation.

Do you charge for set-up and tear down time?

Absolutely not! Our pricing includes everything, from set up to tear down and all activities in between. The only additional charges would be should decide to add on our photography, videography or slideshow service.

Do you use a “tip-jar?”

No, we do not. We charge a professional rate for professional services. You will never see a “tip-jar” at your event, or find us soliciting or encouraging gratuities from you or your guests. If, however, you feel you received an exemplary performance at your event, and you decide of your own accord to offer a gratuity, you may do so freely. It goes without saying that we wouldn’t mind!

Do you advertise at my event?

We are there to play a part in enhancing your event, not to overtly enhance or promote ourselves. We have business cards available should you or your guest like to use our services in the future, but that is the extent of our advertising.

Do you take breaks?

We are all human, and when nature calls, you have to answer!!! However, because there is always two on site personnel, there should never be a pause or disruption in your service.

What if you do not have songs or artists that we want to hear?

Our musical library is very extensive, and is always growing, but even in today’s digital-age, there is always going to be something we won’t have. That is why we get your “must play” song selections ahead of time, so we can have them ready for your event. Our policy regarding music is if you want something we don’t have, we will get it for you at no extra charge provided we have ample time to do so before your event.

How loud will the music be?

One of the biggest pet peeves of clients and guests regarding other DJ’s they’ve seen in the past was volume. “The DJ was just too loud.” We try our best at all times to ensure that the volume level is appropriate. During the cocktail and dinner hours the music will be set at a comfortable level to facilitate normal conversation. Background music should be just that – in the background. When it’s time to dance, if necessary, and if possible, the speakers will be adjusted to give the dance floor the maximum sound while the rest of the room can still engage in conversation. If an event is at a private residence or on a residential property, we will work with you to ensure that your guests can enjoy themselves throughout the night while not eliciting complaints from neighbors. Of course, if at any time you feel that the music is too loud – or too quiet – let us know and adjustments will be made. It is your event after all!

How interactive is your performance style?

We are relatively low-key, and actually try to be on the microphone as little as possible. Of course, we will make sure you and your guests are having a good time, and that your event keeps moving according to schedule… That’s just what we do!

We are not game show hosts or stand-up comedians, and we are not at your event doing an “act,” so you will not find us trying to fill any of these roles… only trying to create and maintain the atmosphere you desire in the most professional manner possible.

Top 10 Ways Guests Can Ruin A Wedding (via The Knot)

Speak Up During the Ceremony

We’ve heard the horror stories — the “Are you sure?” from the minister, the “Don’t do it man” groomsmen comment and the vocal grandmother using her time as reader at the pulpit to offer her humble opinion. Yikes.

Instead: If you have information on either the bride or groom that could be a relationship game changer, the ceremony is not the time to reveal it. Any reservations about the relationship should be brought up in private long before the ceremony.

Stick Your Finger in the Cake

Believe it or not, guests do this. There’s nothing cute or okay about touching the piece de resistance of the reception menu. Besides the sanitary factor, wedding cakes are expensive and should only be handled by three people: the bride, the groom and the caterer.

Instead: It sounds ridiculous and should go without saying, but if you can’t get close to a wedding cake without touching it, don’t go near it.

Wear White

We don’t care if it’s the middle of summer and your little white sundress is the most flattering thing in your closet. Do not, we repeat, do not wear white to someone else’s wedding. Most brides have been looking forward to their moment in the spotlight — as the only one in white. While it’s true no one could possibly upstage the bride, it’s considered the ultimate guest dress no-no. The other color to avoid wearing at a wedding? Bright red.

Instead: Colorful tones like pinks, yellows and purples are all fair game. Just stay away from anything in the white and ivory color family.

Use the Wedding to Hook Up

Yes, it’s true, a wedding is a great place to meet other singles — there’s a great venue, lighting, food, everyone is dressed to the nines — but please refrain from using the reception like you would a club. In other words, no making out on the dance floor with the bride’s cousin or the groom’s brother. Do you really want to be that guest?

Instead: Hey, if sparks are really flying, feel free to ask for a number and make a date.

Give a Roast Toast

Just because you have a microphone in your hand that doesn’t give you free rein to tell the most outrageous college drinking story or reveal what happened in Vegas. It’s also not the time to talk about old boyfriends or reveal the groom’s most embarrassing habits.

Instead: Give your speech the grandma test. If it’s not PG-rated and something you’d be comfortable telling her, it’s not wedding reception toast material.

Drink Too Much

Your friend’s wedding celebration is just that — it’s not a fraternity party. Know your limit and don’t go over it. Making a fool of yourself in front of everyone, falling all over the place or leaving the party early because you couldn’t handle your liquor isn’t the way you want your best friend’s new wife to remember you, is it?

Instead: Save the shots for the bachelor party.

Let the Kids Run Wild

You know the scene: the shrieking kids terrorizing the dance floor during dinner, the toddler tantrum during the toast, the loud baby screaming over the vows during the ceremony — all potentially nightmare situations for the couple getting married, not to mention the other guests.

Instead: Confirm that there’s child care available at the reception and make arrangements, or leave the kiddies at home for the evening.

Spill Anything on the Bride

That gorgeous white wedding dress more than likely cost the bride a couple thousand. And while she probably won’t have another reason to wear it again, a drink spilled on the wedding dress still ranks as one of the worst mistakes a guest could make.

Instead: You can’t be too careful holding a beverage near the bride. If you have a glass of red wine or Coke in your hand, put it down.

Hit on the Waitstaff

It might sound crass (because it is), but we’ve heard plenty of stories of rowdy guests corralling the waitstaff to dance with them. Not only is it completely inappropriate, it’ll be really embarrassing when the catering manager pulls you aside to file a formal harassment complaint.

Instead: Uh, just don’t?

Tell the DJ to Change the Music

At your wedding, you get to choose the music. Otherwise, the tunes aren’t in your control. You could end up requesting a song that was on the couple’s do-not-play list (like, say, one with unsettling sentimental feelings attached).

Instead: Unless the bride or groom expressly asks you to talk to the band or DJ about a song request, keep your song suggestions to yourself.

Busy week around the office this week…

We have been making all sorts of changes and enchancements this week. First, thanks to Infused Web we now have our long sought after logo.

Then, we unvieled a couple new add ons for our wedding clients:

Photo option:

Yes, we know you have your wedding day photographer to do all your classic wedding pose pictures. But what about when the party gets going? Let us capture those spontaneous and off the cuff moments for you.

Our photography package is all about immortalizing the fun of your special day. We will capture those casual shots of both you and your guests as you go through your reception activities. From your grand entrance through to your last dance, we will grab every moment with our high definition all digital camera.

You will receive 2 discs of pictures, each disc containing all the pictures from your special day, plus a personalized slideshow created from the playlist used at your reception.

In addition, we will store your pictures, so should you ever lose your discs, we will send you a direct link to download them at anytime.

PLUS, you will have SAME DAY Facebook access to them through our company Facebook page.

On average, there will be between 250-300 pictures on the disc.

You get all the above for a total cost of $100.

Video Option:

Still pictures just not enough for you? Then step up to our video option.

With this package, we will capture every moment of your grand entrance, first dance, parents dance, cake cutting, garter / bouquet ceremony and any other special events you have planned for your reception. We will also grab video well wishes from your guests, plus capture all the craziness that occurs as your wedding day photographer gets those classic shots of you and your family together (this will be done only if the ceremony and reception is held in the same venue).

On average, each DVD will be 1 hour to 1 hour and 15 minutes long.

You will three copies of the DVD in a custom made case just for your special day for $165.

Some things you should (AKA, the fine print):

The above two packages are meant to supplement any wedding photography you have arranged, it is not meant to act as the sole source of wedding day pictures.

Your wedding day photographer is the sole coordinator of all your pictures; we simply act as a second eye to them.

These packages are only an add-on to any DJ package; they cannot be purchased by themselves.

We can only do the photo OR the video, not both at the same time.

Either package can be done for your ceremony as well for $35 extra, but the ceremony and reception must be held at the same venue.

Wedding Pre-Ceremony and Ceremony music

If your ceremony and reception are being held at the same venue, we can provide pre-ceremony and ceremony music for you. This add-on would include up to a half an hour of pre-ceremony music (normally light classical or piano, but can be anything of your choosing) plus all the music for your ceremony (processional, recessional and any in-ceremony music you may need).

The cost for this add-on is $75.00

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Lisa and Chris, April 30, 2011

On Saturday, April 30, 2011 Sights and Sounds had the pleasure of entertaining newlyweds Lisa and Chris and all their invited guest at the Cave Ridge Winery in Mount Jackson, VA. This venue is a picturesque setting in the heart of the mountains. The weather could not have been more perfect for the outdoor dinner and reception.

At the request of the bride and groom, the mood for cocktails with classic songs from the 80s.

17:28 : Fleetwood Mac – Dreams
17:32 : Outfield – Your Love
17:35 : Cure – Love Song
17:38 : Toto – Africa
17:43 : Billy Joel – She’s Got a Way
17:46 : Smashing Pumpkins – Tonight, Tonight [1996]
17:49 : Elton John – Your Song
17:53 : UB40 – Red Red Wine
17:56 : Tears For Fears – Head Over Heels
18:00 : Modern English – I Melt With You
18:04 : ROY ORBISON – YOU GOT IT
18:08 : David Bowie – Modern Love (1990 Digital Remaster – Single Version)
18:11 : Erasure – Chains Of Love
18:15 : Thompson Twins – Hold Me Now
18:19 : Spandau Ballet – True
18:25 : Level 42 – Something About You (Single Version)
18:28 : Madonna – Crazy For You
18:32 : Pet Shop Boys – Always On My Mind
18:36 : Johnny Cash – Ring of Fire
18:38 : Barbra Streisand & Bryan Adams – I Finally Found Someone
18:42 : Frank Sinatra – Come Fly With Me (1998 Remaster)

It was then onto the introductions, which were handled to amidst the background of the Flash Gordon theme, much to the amusement of all attending. As the newlyweds were introduced, they made their way to the dance area to begin their first dance, done to Edwin McCain’s rendition of “I Could Not Ask For More”.

As their dance began, they were joined by two little visitors


At the conclusion of the dance, the couple and their guests made their way to the dining area, just off of the patio where they enjoyed a large buffet set to the music the couple pre-selected.

18:53 : Debbie Gibson – Lost In Your Eyes
18:56 : Dido – Thank You
19:00 : Faith Hill – Breathe
19:04 : OneRepublic – All The Right Moves
19:07 : Adele – Rolling In The Deep [Radio Edit]
19:11 : Bruno Mars – Just The Way You Are
19:14 : Pat Green – Wave On Wave
19:18 : Wham! – I’m Your Man
19:22 : Phil Collins – You Can’t Hurry Love
19:25 : Kenny Chesney – When The Sun Goes Down
19:29 : U2 – Beautiful Day
19:32 : UB40 – (I Can’t Help) Falling In Love With You
19:36 : Hall & Oates – Kiss On My List
19:39 : Icehouse – Electric Blue
19:43 : Bad English – Price Of Love

It was then onto the last of the “official” activities for the night, as the sun began to go down, we had to put the cake cutting and toast back to back for their to be enough light for the photographer.




The happy couple opted to bypass the garter removal, and instead chose to just do the bouquet toss….off the second story deck of the winery.

As the bouquet hit the air, our lights came on and the party really got underway, with a mix of both modern dance hits and the classic dance floor packers from the past

20:08 : Marvin Gaye – Let’s Get It On
20:11 : Jay Sean – 2012 (It AinÆt The End)
20:15 : Bon Jovi – Livin’ On A Prayer
20:19 : Def Leppard – Pour Some Sugar On Me
20:23 : Katy Perry – California Gurls (Feat. Snoop
20:27 : Rob Base & D.J. EZ Rock – It Takes Two
20:31 : Naughty By Nature – Hip Hop Hooray (LP Version)
20:35 : Katy Perry – Hot N Cold
20:39 : New Order – Bizarre Love Triangle
20:42 : K7 – Come Baby Come (Radio)
20:46 : Flo Rida – Low
20:50 : Men Without Hats – Safety Dance
20:52 : Lady Gaga – Poker Face
20:56 : Taio Cruz – Dynamite
20:59 : Ke$ha – We R Who We R [Clean]
21:02 : Vanilla Ice – Ice Ice Baby [1990]
21:06 : 50 Cent – In Da Club
21:09 : ACDC – You Shook Me All Night Long
21:12 : Kenny Loggins – Footloose
21:16 : Michael Jackson – Billie Jean
21:19 : Van Morrison – Brown Eyed Girl
21:22 : Usher – Yeah!
21:26 : Eminem – Without Me (Album Version – Edited)
21:30 : Cyndi Lauper – Girls just want to have fun
21:33 : Sir Mix-A-Lot – Baby Got Back [1992]
21:37 : C&C Music Factory – Gonna Make You Sweat (everybody Dance Now)
21:41 : Billy Idol – Mony Mony
21:45 : Young MC – Bust A Move
21:50 : Black Eyed Peas – I Gotta Feeling
21:55 : M.C. Hammer – U Can’t Touch This
21:58 : Green Day – Good Riddance [1998]

Paige and Steve, April 9, 2011

This past weekend, we had the pleasure of providing entertainment and video services for a lovely couple starting their lives together. The wedding ceremony was took place in the Knights of Columbus hall on the grounds of St Leo’s in Inwood.

The bridal party proceeded down the aisle to the traditional Cannon in D.

The bride, escorted by her father and stepfather, moved down the aisle to the sounds of the Bridal Chorus.

After a brief ceremony, both the bridal party and the newlyweds left the hall to Israel Kamakawiwo’ole – Somewhere Over The Rainbow.

The reception was immediately after the ceremony in the St. Leo’s reception hall.

Guests dined on a appetizer combination of cheese and fruit.

We used our standard set up for the reception hall, which had a large area for us to set up (something we always appreciate).

As after ceremony pictures were being taken, guests were treated to a light mix of cross genre musical choices.

15:08 : Brad Paisley – She’s Everything
15:12 : Train – 11 – Marry Me
15:15 : Bryan Adams – Everything I Do, I Do It For You [1991]
15:19 : Lady Antebellum – I Run To You [Pop Edit]
15:23 : Rascal Flatts – Bless The Broken Road
15:26 : Aerosmith – I Don’t Want To Miss A Thing [1998]
15:31 : Ben E King – Stand By Me
15:34 : Bruno Mars – Just The Way You Are
15:38 : Gary Allan – The One
15:42 : Jason Mraz – Lucky
15:45 : Steel Magnolia – Just By Being You (Halo And Wings) [Radio Edit]
15:48 : Van Morrison – Into The Mystic
15:52 : Etta James – At Last (Single Version)
15:55 : Frank Sinatra – The Way You Look Tonight (Remastered)
15:58 : George Strait – I Cross My Heart
16:01 : Norah Jones – Come Away With Me
16:04 : Tim McGraw – my best friend
16:09 : Edwin McCain – I’ll Be (Acoustic Version)

The bride and groom entered the room to All You Need Is Love by The Beatles, then a nice sit down, served dinner got underway.

16:18 : Chantal Kreviazuk – Feels Like Home
16:23 : Air Supply – Lost In Love
16:27 : Darius Rucker – History In The Making
16:30 : Harry Connick Jr – It Had To Be You
16:32 : Glee – True Colors
16:36 : Mariah Carey – Vision Of Love
16:39 : Elvis Presley – Can’t Help Falling In Love
16:42 : Zac Brown Band – Free
16:46 : Thompson Square – Are You Gonna Kiss Me Or Not
16:49 : Alan Jackson – When Somebody Loves You
16:52 : Jason Aldean With Kelly Clarkson – Don’t You Wanna Stay [Radio Edit]
16:56 : Faith Hill – Breathe
17:04 : Chely Wright – It Was
17:08 : Dido – Thank You

For their first dance, the happy couple choose Michael Buble’s “Crazy Love”, and invited all couples to join them on the floor. Then it was onto the cake ceremony.

The party got going with some dancing to help burn off some of the calories from that gorgeous cake.

17:20 : Elvis Presley – Jailhouse Rock
17:22 : Aretha Franklin – Respect
17:25 : Foundations – Build Me Up Buttercup
17:27 : Dion – Runaround Sue
17:30 : Village People – Y.M.C.A.
17:33 : Michael Jackson – Billie Jean
17:38 : B-52′s – Love Shack

We took a quick break from the dancing for the final “official” event of the night, the garter and bouquet ceremony. Patrick and Nicole (the lucky catchers of said garter and bouquet) were good sports to play along with us. Then, the party really got going all the way until the end!

17:51 : Elton John – Your Song
17:55 : Bee Gees – Stayin Alive
17:59 : Commodores – Brick House (Extended Version)
18:02 : Cyndi Lauper – Girls just want to have fun
18:05 : Ke$ha – We R Who We R [Clean]
18:08 : Gretchen Wilson – I’d Love To Be Your Last [Radio Remix]
18:11 : Neil Diamond – Sweet Caroline (Single Version)
18:14 : Van Morrison – Brown Eyed Girl
18:17 : Gloria Gaynor – I Will Survive
18:20 : John Travolta & Olivia Newton John – Grease Megamix
18:25 : Cee Lo Green – F**k You (PO “forget You” Clean Edit)
18:28 : Enrique Iglesias Feat. Ludacris – Tonight [Xtra Clean]
18:32 : Katy Perry Ft Snoop Dogg – California Gurls
18:36 : Green Day – Good Riddance [1998]

A fun night was had by all and we wish the happy couple all the best in their new lives together!

The Ipod Wedding

Every now and then, we will get a potential client say to us “we are thinking about doing an IPod wedding instead of hiring someone” and then ask what our thoughts are on this. Now, Sights and Sounds prides itself on being as upfront as possible with every client so as they go about choosing vendors for their special day, the client has the best possible information at their fingertips. With this in mind, anyone out their considering doing an IPod wedding should keep a few things in mind:

1. What are you going to play the IPod on? Remember there is a reason “professional grade” equipment is labeled as such. It is designed and built to be played at the volume levels necessary for a large group of people. Even if you are only having 70 or 80 people at your reception, nothing you have in your home is designed to accommodate this. Your equipment will be overheating and underpowered for the 4-5 hours of use it will endure. If you are going to have an IPod wedding, you absolutely need to find a vendor who is willing to rent you professional grade equipment for the day (many DJ companies will do this, Sights and Sounds does not).

2. Music Selection – remember the goal of any wedding reception is for you and your guests to have a mutually good time. It should not be treated as your own personal concert. You may enjoy 4 hours of the Backstreet Boys greatest hits, but your invited guests will not. Keep this in mind as you go through making the playlist for your IPod. You know what your guest list looks like, both in age range and musical tastes, so make sure your IPod playlist reflects this. Also, keep in mind that the IPod will not be able to read the crowd, so even on shuffle, you really have no control over the order things are played in.

3. Announcements. You will want to make sure you have designated someone as the announcer for the evening. This is something that should be done well in advance and the person should be comfortable speaking in front of large groups. Keep in mind that this person will not just be in charge of announcing the bridal party, but also will be assisting in other things like the cake cutting and garter ceremony.

The most obvious advantage to going the IPod route is you will save money. Even with renting an audio system, you will come out ahead. After speaking with some of our DJ brethren, we found that most will rent a small system (2 speakers with stands and some type of amplification) for around $200-$300 for the day. If you are on a tight budget, this really is the ideal option for you to have the music you want heard on your special day? You will want to make sure you have your IPod set up in a low traffic area, and somewhere that guests will not have access to it. The last thing you want to have happen is guests constantly running up to change songs because one is playing they do not like.

Now keeping the above in mind…and without trying to sell you on Sights and Sounds, I would like to cover some of the drawbacks to having an IPod wedding. The biggest and most obvious is musical choice. Most professional DJ companies will have 10,000 or more songs from every genre available at their finger tips. Now, you may say “so what?” and this would be fair. But think about this, you do not know every situation that can occur at your wedding reception. Maybe your grandparents want to dance to “their” song at the spur of the moment, or maybe the party gets going so good you decide you want to have a dance contest. None of these things are going to be possible with an IPod wedding.

Another thing to keep in mind if most DJs are wedding professionals. They know when and how things are supposed to be done. Unless you are using a wedding coordinator of some kind, you are going to be left on your own when trying to organize things the day of your reception. You do not want to have to worry about when the right time to do the toast, cake cutting or garter is going to be. A professional wedding DJ will be able to help you with these things.

There is also the issue of “reading the crowd”. Many people believe professional DJs “just play music”. Nothing could be further from the truth. A professional DJ knows when to play what song. They will know when the right time to slow it down will be and when the right time to play that hottest new dance song will be. Even with the best intentions, your IPod on shuffle will still be random. Nothing kills a dance floor faster than the wrong song played at the wrong time.

Many brides we speak with who have either done an IPod wedding or are planning one tells us the same thing “We just wanted to feel like we were in control”. Either because they have been to a wedding where the DJ has taken over, or because they simply feel like every DJ is the “hey look at me” type; they decided to have complete control over every aspect of their day. My response to them is always the same “you did not speak with a true wedding professional if you felt like you were not in control”. A professional wedding DJ will help bring a sense of stabilizing calm to your day. An iPod wedding will do just the opposite. It will add another worry to your list. You will have to find enough music to fill 4-5 hours, and then worry if your guests will dance to what you picked.

The goal of Sights and Sounds is always to provide any potential client as much information as possible to make their own decision. We do not tell you what you should or shouldn’t do. We simply want to use our years of experience to help clients make the best choice possible for their special day.